Today I have for you a long quote from Abraham-Hicks, about exes and previous heartbreak. Because no one expresses complicated ideas as well as they do …
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From inside this vortex of creation, you will look back on this contrast
that created it, and you will love it.
Bless you, lover, lover, other lover, other lover, [then said very fast]
other lover, other lover, other lover, other lover, other lover, other
lover!
Bless all you lovers who have left me behind. [Laughter}
Bless all you who cheated and lied. Bless all who stole from me, who robbed me of my virginity. (Just that ONE!)
Bless you, bless each and every one of you for you were the catalyst for
this. And now I am over here, [in the Vortex] I’m blessing you. But when I
am over here [outside the Vortex] I’m damning you.
We say you can’t have it both ways. The only reason you are damning them to
begin with is because they helped you become something you are not letting
yourself be.
If you hadn’t expanded big time, you’d not be suffering in your not keeping up to speed, do you get that?
So you just got to come to the place where you are willing to appreciate all of them. But we would never ask you to find appreciation for those rascals when you are standing outside your Vortex.
That is too much work! Get in your vortex. GET IN YOUR VORTEX!
And to do that, you’ve got to forget about the rascals. You’ve got to find
something else to focus on, something neutral, something non toxic,
something that is not an issue, something that hasn’t been hurting you…
You gotta chill and relax and release and meditate and breathe and walk and ski and surf and bask and sunbathe and relax and sing and love and laugh.
Nurture yourself and eat good stuff and find better and better feeling
thoughts and practice them until they become the norm.
And then EVERYTHING that life has caused you to become must manifest into your experience!
~ Abraham-Hicks
Chrissy says: I love this because it’s so true from the broader perspective. Have you ever thought back to an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend and thought ‘Oh… thank goodness they messed it up between us even if it made me cry at the time. If they hadn’t been so awful, I would now be stuck with them! And I like where I am and who is now sitting facing me, SO much more.’
If you have, then you really understand how every lover who disappointed you, even the one that hung around for years and years, brought you to where you are today. And maybe where you are today is at the precipice of looking into the eyes of that BIG ONE (maybe even the T/F.)
Are you going to stay stuck in the angst and energy of the ex-lover whose only role was to bring you (maybe kicking and screaming) to this beautiful time in your life with all its possibilities … and then leave you in peace to enjoy it? Or are you going to look up, smile, and give a Cead Mille Failte (a hundred thousand welcomes) to what your heart really wants?
Are you going to keep up with who you’ve become?
